Why Men Should Pay More Attention When Buying Jewellery
Today’s fashion trend is no longer all about women. Jewellery can be worn by men too. It is important for women to choose the style and the designs that they want for their fashion accessories, but more so, men should also be picky in selecting the right jewelry for them. Why is this important? Men have their own standards when choosing jewelry. You don’t want to look overly-accessorized and like someone out of a women’s fashion magazine. Instead, you want to look classy, elegant and very manly with your jewellery.
Women love to shop for jewellery, and men should find time to do so too. Shopping is an art in itself. One of the most important guides that you should follow – always choose jewellery that suits your taste, character and personality. If you think you are not comfortable in wearing a certain piece of jewelry, then you might as well put in back on the shelf.
If you are ready to do some jewelry shopping, here are some tips that you can use:
One of the classic pieces of jewelry accessories is a mens watches. Functionality should be the priority in choosing watches. There are men’s watches that are waterproof and shockproof. You can also choose from elegant watches and trendy watches. Ask yourself what you are going to use the watch for, and you can easily select the right jewelry watches with the appropriate functionally and style that you want.
Rings are another ’safe’ jewelry for men. You can either choose from gold rings or something made in titanium, platinum or silver. You can go for simple styles or go for rings with intricate designs on them. It all depends on your taste and preference.
Men’s necklaces are another example of the fashionable jewelry that you can sport. They can come in short or long chains. One of the most important things in choosing a necklace is to select the right pendant. Pendants come in a variety of designs. For men, you can go bold or muted. Some of the more popular pendant designs you can choose from are crosses, dragons and Superman, among others.
Men are also fond of wearing bracelets, which can be chained jewellery or solid bands. They can also come in gold, silver, platinum and titanium.
If you are to shop for earrings, you can either go for a stud or a hoop. The best hoop earrings for men are made of silver, white gold or titanium. Don’t go for gold hoop earrings (unless you want to look like a pirate!). Most men would prefer to wear a single hoop earring. Stud earrings are also fashionable among men. There is a wide range of stud earrings for men and the popular ones even have diamonds on them.
If you want to look your best for any occasion, take time in choosing your jewelry watches. Make sure that the jewellery you wear will go well with your outfit and the occasion that you are attending. And the most important thing, always wear something that you are comfortable with and something that shows off your own character and style.
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Pointers for Husbands to ensure good and peaceful life with their wife's.?
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Pointers for Husbands to ensure good and peaceful life with their wife’s.?
the last time, I asked a question was when i was feeling very low that my husband did not make me feel special on my b’day;
Well now i was wondering whether we wife’s should have a poinetrs created for husband’s which they should follow and if they forget something important, then they should be penalised.
I came up with some idea’s like:
1. Husband forgets Birthday then to recify this mistake he should make up by buying an expensive piece of jewellery (given the price of gold, it should burn a hole in his pocket) for his wife.
2. Husband forgets Valentine day then it can be rectified if for 14 sunday’s he cleans the house and arranges the clothes in the cupboard.
3. Husband forgets Wedding anniversary then he can get off by making dinner for his family for say the number of years of the marriage.
4. If there is an argument and he raises his hand on his wife , then to penalise him, wife has the freedom to wack him or twist his ears, so that next tiem he would nt dare lay a finger on his wife.
All this is just on the spot for me..
Please give me some good and interesting idea’s so it helps me put in a charter for Husband’s to follow……..
as i was browsing thru sites, i came up with pointers which i have chalked below… for each can we have some actions so that husbands will not do it next time….
1. Ignoring her
2. Not valuing her opinions
3. Paying other people more attention than I pay her
4. Not listening to her or not understanding what she feels is important
5. Closing her out by not talking to her or by not listening to her (the Silent Treatment)
6. Being easily distracted when she’s trying to talk
7. Not scheduling special time to be with her
8. Not being open to talk about things that I don’t understand
9. Not being open to talk about things that she doesn’t understand
10. Not giving her a chance to fully voice her opinion on decisions that affect the entire family
11. Punishing her by being angry or silent
12. Making jokes about certain aspects of her life
13. Making sarcastic comments about her
14. Insulting her in front of other people
15. Coming back at her with quick retorts when we are arguing
16. Giving harsh admonitions
17. Using careless words before I think through how they will affect her
18. Nagging her and speaking harshly
19. Correcting her before giving her a chance to fully explain a situation
20. Raising my voice at her
21. Making critical comments that seem to have no logical basis
22. Swearing or using foul language in her presence
23. Correcting her in public
24. Being tactless when pointing out her weaknesses or “blind spots”
25. Reminding her angrily that I warned her not to do something
26. Having disgusted or judgmental attitudes in general
27. Pressuring her when she is already feeling low or offended
28. Lecturing her when she needs to be comforted, encouraged, or treated gently
29. Breaking promises without any explanation or without asking to be released from the promise
30. Telling her how wonderful other women are and comparing her in any way to other women
31. Holding onto resentment about something that she did and which she tried to make right
32. Being disrespectful to her family members and other relatives
33. Coercing her into arguments
34. Correcting or punishing her in anger for something that she is not guilty of
35. Not praising her for something that she did well, even if she did it for me
36. Treating her like a child
37. Being rude to her or to other people when we are in public (such as restaurant personnel or store clerks)
38. Being unaware of her needs
39. Being ungrateful
40. Not trusting her
41. Not approving of what she does or of how she does it
42. Not being interested in her personal growth or her spiritual growth
43. Being inconsistent in my life or having double standards (doing things that I don’t want her to do)
44. Not giving her advice when she really needs it and asks for it
45. Not telling her that I love her in specific ways
46. Having proud and arrogant attitudes in general
47. Not giving her the daily encouragement that she needs
48. Failing to include her in conversation when we are out together with other people
49. Failing to spend focused time with her when we attend social gatherings
50. “Talking her down”—continuing to discuss or argue a point simply to prove that I was right
51. Ignoring her around the house as if she weren’t a member of the family
52. Not taking time at the end of the day to listen to what is important to her
53. Not paying any attention to her at social gatherings
54. Not attending church/ temples together as a family
55. Failing to honestly express to her what I think are h
55. Failing to honestly express to her what I think are her innermost feelings
56. Showing more excitement for work and other activities than for her
57. Being impolite at mealtimes
58. Having sloppy manners around the house or in front of others
59. Not inviting her out regularly on special romantic dates (Just the two of us)
60. Not helping her with the children at extra stressful times, such as just before mealtimes or at bedtime
61. Not volunteering to help her with the dishes occasionally—or with cleaning the house
62. Making her feel stupid when she shares an idea about my work or about decisions that must be made
63. Making her feel unworthy for desiring certain furniture or insurance or other material needs for herself and the family
64. Being inconsistent with the discipline of the children
65. Not taking an interest in playing with the children and not spending quality and quantity time with them
65. Not taking an interest in playing with the children and not spending quality and quantity time with them
66. Failing to show affection for her in public, such as holding her hand or putting my arm around her (As if I seem to be embarrassed to be with her)
67. Not sharing my life, my ideas or my feelings with her (such as what’s going on at work)
68. Neglecting the spiritual leadership of my home
69. Demanding my wife to submit to me
70. Demanding her to respond to me sexually when we are not in harmony with one another
71. Being unwilling to readily admit when I am wrong
72. Being defensive whenever she points out one of my “blind spots”
73. Being too busy with work or other activities
74. Not showing compassion and understanding for her and the children when there is a real need to do so
95. Not treating her as if “Handle With Care” were stamped on her forehead
96. Ignoring her relatives and the people who are important to her
97. Taking her for granted; assuming that “a woman’s work is never done”
98. Not including her in future plans until the last minute
99. Seldom doing little unexpected things for her to let her know that I love her and appreciate her
100. Not treating her as an intellectual equal
101. Viewing her as a weaker individual in general
102. Being preoccupied with my own goals and needs, and making her feel that she and the children are not my top priority
103. Threatening to never let her do something again because she made some mistake in the past
104. Criticizing her behind her back (This is especially painful for her if she hears about my criticism from someone else)
75. Not planning for the future, which makes her very insecure
76. Being stingy with money, making her feel that she has to beg for every penny
77. Wanting us to do things sexually that make her feel embarrassed
78. Reading pornographic magazines or watching indiscreet videos
79. Forcing her to make many of the decisions regarding the checkbook and bills
80. Forcing her to handle bill collectors and overdue bills
81. Not letting her lean on my gentleness and strength (or not having gentleness and strength for her to lean on)
82. Not allowing her to fail—always believing that I have to correct her
83. Refusing to recognize her uniqueness and her differences as a woman
84. Criticizing her womanly characteristics or sensitivity as being weakness
115. Humiliating her with words and actions, saying things like, “I can’t stand to live in a messy home”
116. Not taking the time to prepare her to enjoy sexual intimacy
117. Spending money extravagantly without being faithful in giving to God
118. Avoiding family activities that the children enjoy
119. Taking vacations that are primarily what I want to do
120. Not letting her get away to spend time with friends, go shopping, go out for coffee and dessert at a restaurant, etc.
121. Being unwilling to join her in the things that she enjoys like shopping, going out for coffee and dessert at a restaurant, etc.
122. Not understanding the challenging responsibilities that a wife has: laundry, cooking, picking up clothes and toys all day long, wiping runny noses, changing diapers, etc.
123. Refusing to be self-sacrificial by regularly touching her in non-sexual ways, strictly for her pleasure and enjoyment, not leading to sexual intercourse
85. Spending too much money and placing the family under financial pressure
86. Not having a sense of humor and not joking about things together
87. Not sending her special love letters or hand-written notes from time to time
88. Forgetting special occasions like anniversaries or birthdays
89. Not defending her when somebody else is criticizing her or tearing her down, especially if it is one of my relatives or friends
90. Not putting my arms around her and hugging her when she needs to be comforted
91. Not praising her to other people
92. Being dishonest
93. Discouraging her when she tries to better herself, either through education or through exercise
94. Continuing to practice distasteful or harmful habits
105. Blaming her for things in our relationship that are clearly my fault
106. Not being aware of her physical limitations; treating her like a man by roughhousing with her or making her carry heavy objects
107. Being impatient or angry with her when she can’t keep up with my schedule or physical stamina
108. Acting as though I am a martyr if I go along with her opinions
109. Sulking when she challenges my comments
110. Joining too many organizations that exclude her and the children
111. Failing to repair items around the house
112. Watching too much TV and therefore, neglecting family time
113. Demanding that she must sit down and listen to my point of view when she needs to be doing other things
114. Insisting upon lecturing her in order to convey the importance of the points that I want to make
Oh my!
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